(5000+ students since 1995)

everything is made of waves!

learn to"surf" The Infinite Wave

within your body, mind and breath

(a dynamically peaceful solution for your anxious life)

New WEbinaR:

iwave Basics

Download the ultimate "Inner App" into your consciousness

for a superpower of presence 

6 Wednesday evenings

starting June 17, 6-8-ish pm


Shakti Gawain (RIP)

Best-selling author of Creative Visualization, Living in the Light, etc.

"I love Katie Darling. 
She is very courageous, and follows her intuition to help people face their fears safely, and find their own courage. Her work comes from a deeply caring place."


Hi, I'm Katie Darling. How are you feeling?

Welcome to my website. My big news right now, in the middle of the panic-demic, is that after only working one-on-one in private sessions, I am offering my first seminar (first-ever webinar) in 10 years:


iWAVE Basics Training, a 6-week Intensive,

starting June 17, then 24, July 1/8/15/22

Wednesday eves 6 - 8-ish PDT 

enroll/find out more HERE


There are limited spots. I would love to see you there. It will change your life.


I'm not a Newbie, and this isn’t a Gimmick

I've been on a life-path of awakening and personal growth since an inconvenient spiritual experience when I was 18, many decades ago!  Spiritual and psychological consulting and teaching has been my only profession since then, mentoring 1000s of people in seminars and private sessions for more than 40 years.


The energy that works through me is very effective and skilled at saving you years of struggle and melting down your hidden blocks for a rapid breakthrough into freedom, joy, healing, abundance, and even spiritual awakening—even if you have tried everything. (I'm also very humble, as you can tell! :-). 


The Path of Growth Is Not Always Easy

If, like me, you find yourself on a spiritual or growth path  (awakening, recovery, conscious creation, meditation). you know that you didn't exactly choose it! The path has chosen you, perhaps through suffering, perhaps through giving you glimpses of a deeply-remembered realm where you are free, powerful and one with All.  You may not have consciously chosen to be "different," yet you do need to embrace it. You can't go back to completely "fitting in."  And... it can be stressful! 


Sometimes you may feel that, by opening up to be who you really are, and create a powerful, purposeful life, you go through more than those who are happily doing life in a more traditional way. What's up with that? Maybe you are an empath, or very sensitive. Or you know from a few transformative experiences that there is something greater, yet the ways you have tried to sustain that joyful vision only work for a while, then they stop working and you end up disappointed. Why is this? 


My Research Project:

I have spent my life (see my strange BIO) researching this question of What. Really. Works. so we can have a practical ongoing experience of that presence that you've probably glimpsed, if you are reading this. My big question to "The Field" has been: "What is the HOW of NOW? We may know there is a greater potential for us, but HOW do we sustain it?" 


The Field has checked this box, and answered this "HOW" question. Keep reading, or explore the information on this site. 


In this lifelong experiment I've beta-tested (on myself and clients) pretty much every path and "non-path," out there, including: healing tools, spiritual systems, energy cultivation, somatic and breathing practices, "steps," belief-changing tricks, emotional integration, philosophies, meditations, psychological methodology, channeling—and techniques you have never heard of—to make the path of transformation easier and faster for you and myself.

But, like you, probably,  I found that most practices don't work after the initial honeymoon phase. They are not integrated enough, usually addressing one part of you, like your mind, body, emotions OR spirit. I saw that I had to cobble many methods together to cover all the bases of my complex self.


So I began curating a multidimensional and integrated methodology (to be more accurate, I would say this happened through me), combining the best of all I had explored with many completely original methods.

Spoiler alert: it's all based on waves, as you may have guessed.


This came from an extraordinary 3 day awakening  in 1995 when, after a long period of frustration, I was carried into a life-changing transformational experience. I was shown that the universe: you, me, and everything else, is all made of waves. We have forgotten our wave-like true nature. And the only "hack" that will ever really work to unravel ourselves is to remember it. To experience our fluid essence directly. 

The wavy Presence behind my experience told me to call it "the motherwave," and I opened Motherwave Institute, which was then Soulwave, and now iWAVE Institute, where you learn to surf The Infinite Wave.


(FAQ: Why "Infinite Wave?"  "Isn’t it the same concept as God or Stillness?" 


A: Ah yes, "STILLNESS!" And how's that working for you? We call it The Infinite Wave as a reminder that the paradigm here is dynamic, not static!  


iWave is based on dynamic intelligence, in other words the realization—not just the idea—that everything is fluid, in dynamic movement, and consists of waves. There aren’t really any particles, it's just a collapsing wave function of attention. 


More to the point,  if so-called "stillness" ain’t working for you (and there is none in the universe) try this, for starters:  


Imagine your Source or real home as... not stillness... but... an infinitely loving/moving ocean of intelligent waves into which you can let go. It (He/She) is holding you. Healing, embracing, relaxing and melting you.


This is the iWAVE experience (not done through imagination, though). When you access your Source through the medium of waves, surfing the dynamic,  unfolding crest of the now in your body, breath and feelings,  your mind will be... yep... STILL! 


And also: free, creative, fearless, inspired... For many people, this works much better than TRYING to attain stillness through "holding themselves still,"  which can result in a dry, frozen body and attitude, and stimulate the infamous "monkey mind" misery. 

(And btw, I was a meditating monk for 12 years long ago, doing more hours of seated meditation than most people do in a lifetime.  There were good moments, but the serenity didn't carry over into everyday life. Like many I have worked with, I found the Experience Formerly Known as Stillness through embracing the Wave). 

In the last 10 years I've taken a retreat from teaching to go deeper into my Self than I thought possible. Or necessary. But who asked me? The work has used me evolve to a new level, for a new era: which is now going to be the post-pandemic era.  (With the iWAVE experience it can also become the "Post-Panic Era!").


I have felt as though I died, resurrected and ascended in a new form. Fortunately, along the way I learned much more about how to navigate and accelerate the Dark Night of the Soul that thousands of people are now going through.


Like you for example? 


Nowadays I'm helping people get through their  transformation more easily than ever.  There is a new download coming in, as if from our highest possible future Self, that shows how to navigate Life Now (not just during the lockdown, but forward into a radically transforming world). 


The work is now more "mystical," which turns out to be the only practical way to handle all your issues (Love, Wealth, Health, Life Purpose, Connection to Source). You will hardly believe you spent so long slogging away trying to "create a better reality" —wait a minute, or is it "surrender my reality?" LOL. 


The experiment has worked, and I've been working in the powerful container of private iWaveTherapy sessions with some very dedicated and wonderful clients. Between helping them melt down the "issues in their tissues" and dismantle their pain-bodies, I have also been initiating them into The iWave Method™, which is basically a quickie version of the work, to do on the fly, in real life, or in other words: 


"How can keep the blissful experience of alive presence going

in the middle of everyday life?" 

That's what I'll be teaching in the upcoming webinar. 

Hope to meet you, at least in a Zoom-room, soon,

Waves of Love, 



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