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Transformational iWaveTherapy
with Katie Darling MSU
(often aided by GReg Andrews MBA)
"LOVE will work if you let it...   (and work it!)"
what current clients are saying:



"OMG, Katie, I finally found someone who would get him to see his stuff, and actually get him to change! "


HE: (smirking)

"Except we're both saying that!"

Fortune 500 Company

"Most therapy, single and couples, is like trying to get a hot air balloon to lift off.

Katie is the rocket ship!"


"Thanks for today, Katie! It was brutally potent.

I feel extremely HELD by your fierceness, and your ability to help us see ALL the things that get in our way.

A part of me already feels softer, like, PHEW, someone finally sees both of us!"

Dear Friends,


It's not your fault if you are struggling in your love relationship. Many of us have "bad code" in our limbic brains and nervous systems that gets activated with intimacy.


And yes, I know, you wish there were MORE intimacy, if only your partner would just... (fill in the blanks)!


ROMANTIC ENLIGHTEMENT is the name I've given to the work I have done for much of the last 50 years (I'm 72!) to understand, heal and upgrade love relationships—both my own (see below), and those of my clients and students, through seminars and private therapeutic coaching. I'm currently working intensively on a weekly basis with a few select, qualified, committed couples.


(Since I now (November 2023) have a waiting list of couples wanting to do the work,  I am working with my husband Greg on the Romantic Enlightenment webinar series, so called because it teaches he basics of getting more enlightenment into your romance and relationships  (especially intimate ones), AND more romance into your enlightenment path.  (Huh?—see here soon for more). Wave 1 (the first level) is  a 30-day Love Wave that may start on Valentine's Day next year (2024). It is about  Love, Relationships and Oneness Mysticism (sometimes called non-duality but in this work more about the embodied experience of oneness). There will then be a Wave 2a for singles and 2b for couples. This webinar may soon be a prerequisite for private work. In the meantime, if you are interested in being on the waiting list for private work, you can email me and we can schedule a 15 minute Zoom chat.)



After 3 initial introductory sessions (one for each person and one together), there is the opportunity for a Romantic Enlightenment Private Intensive—a 30-session (within max of 4 months ) no-exit, no leaving-each-other commitment, during which you will work with me individually and/or as a couple every week. (We will decide on the schedule mostly from my discretion on getting to know you and what is needed). The goal is to get you back to In. Love. Together. (which is more than just "in love"). 


There are many ways that I am different from most couples counselors (and I didn't graduate from my Psychology degree in the 70s, because of a spiritual awakening). So my degree is "MSU" (Making Stuff Up) —which I made up!


  • I'm not a licensed therapist, although I have trained hundreds of licensed health professionals—including psychotherapists, psychiatrists, doctors etc.—in my methodologies for 40 years since 1983, when I gave trainings in hypnotherapy before it was a "thing."

  •  I'm not just working with you to "see if you should be together," in some kind of aloof neutrality!  As a mega-empath, I'm not psychic, but will find that I "get" your situation quickly, and will passionately work to - you entangle the projections, wounds and miscommunications that have gotten you.... where they have gotten you!

  • This relational part of my larger work (called called romantic enlightenment because it is actually about moving individually and as a couple towards greater and greater spiritual or (as I prefer) mystical awakening (more about this here)



(Watch the movie "The Ref")

In other words, this is iWaveTherapy, which includes all kinds of methodologies, from breath, to deep regression, to deep belief-shifting that is more like surgery than therapy. All done in a safe container of kindness, love and no BS!

As you may have gathered, it's not the kind of couples' "talk" therapy where two people argue while I clock in the hours. I'm extremely directive and the transformational effects are fast-moving. Relationships that have been stagnant for decades are moving to the next level.



The work is called "romantic enlightenment" because it's about bringing enlightenment into your romance, AND romance into your enlightenment—aka your journey of falling in love with your True Self. 


Payment is in advance. For the first 3 introductory sessions, you pay full price, $450/session hour = $1350. Then sessions are deeply discounted if we decide to move forward to the committed 30-session Romantic Enlightenment Intensive Dive   (in which case the 1st 3 sessions will be retroactively discounted).  How it works is that each week, you will each have a personal session with me, and every 1 or 2 weeks, a joint session (this is the flexible part as I may potentially advise more or less couple sessions at different phases). 


So—how it works: single and joint sessions with some flexibility as explained above. The discounted price for the Intensive is $9,700 (this is $323/session and a $2000 discount from the per-session rate!)—paid up front, no refunds, no exit strategy! Yay! You are committing to breaking through to a new level of love and harmony in your relationship, however that looks in your souls' journey.


I only work with a few couples at a time, so there may be a waiting list. Call me to discuss any and all of this. 


Contact me to chat and see if we qualify to work with each other. 415-888-3586 (it's a landline: I'll call back soon).

Text or email:


P.S. I have learned my own lessons well. I recently married Greg Andrews (see below) and am living in enlightened romance and real LOVE.  

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Our Story

You won't believe how it happened! 

Coming soon here and to a YouTube thread near you..

and our upcoming webinar:

Romantic Enlightenment— Wave: 2: The REAL SOULmate Seminar

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